Create The Love

6-Week Private Virtual Book Club

Mark Groves | Alexandra Solomon, PhD


Live Q&As w/Mark & Dr. Solomon
Deep-dive Lessons w/Mark
Exclusive Group Discussions
Safe & Private Community
Content is Yours to Keep


Sexual Self-Awareness
Erotic Intelligence
Authentic Connections
Empowered Communication
Boundary Setting

6-Week Book Club with Mark & Dr. Solomon

Today’s sexual climate leaves little to no space for honoring the complexities of sex—sex as pleasure, connection, creative expression, communication, and healing. This private virtual book club focusing on Dr. Alexandra Solomon's new book, Taking Sexy Back, is a beacon that will guide you to reclaim your authentic sexual self, "Your Sexy," and eliminate the noise around sexual expectations. Your most intimate and vulnerable moments should never leave you feeling underwhelmed, confused, or “less than,” which is why this guided experience has been curated to empower you to deepen your connection to yourself, honor your desires, and cultivate authentic intimate connections, regardless of your gender or current relationship status. Dr. Solomon, Mark Groves, and the Create the Love team will support you in your journey, providing you with the ability to develop your own sexual self-awareness, resulting in a reclamation of your erotic power so you may create sexual experiences that elevate, connect, expand, and heal you.


What You'll Get

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6-Weeks of Guided Lessons, Journaling & More

A 6 week guided reading experience around Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality & Create The Relationships You Want by Dr. Alexandra Solomon, complemented with daily videos, articles, meditations, journaling, affirmations, and more, starting February 3rd.

Safe & Private Space for Members Only

A private, virtual community of fellow Create The Lovers to share and grow with, learn from, and be inspired by. This is a supportive, positive community of like-minded individuals on the same journey as you, only accessible by book club members on the hiitide app.

Private Message Your Questions

Guidance and overall support from coach Nick Sol on your journey to Taking Sexy Back, 2 group discussions to meet with others, share real experiences, and feel connected, and 2 Live Q&A’s with Mark Groves and Dr. Solomon where you can submit any questions.


Meet Mark Groves & Dr. Alexandra Solomon

Mark | My brain and heart are home to a lot of relationship nerding-out. Here’s the deepest truth I (currently) know: I’m not here to eff around on this planet during this lifetime. I don’t want to “kinda” do things. I am here to rock the boat. I’m here to share my truth. And I’m here to hang out with other people who are committed to the same way of living. I’m a Human Connection Specialist—an emotional translator, writer, speaker, and coach. My passion is to help people understand their emotional matrix by mastering themselves through their words. At Create The Love, we take what you think you want, find out what you really want, and give you the tools to achieve your goals. Dr. Solomon | Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon is a clinical assistant professor in the Department of Psychology at Northwestern University and a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University. In addition to writing articles and chapters for leading academic journals and books in the field of marriage and family, she is the author of the book Loving Bravely: Twenty Lessons of Self-Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want and Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationship You Want.


Mark | Human Connection Specialist & TEDX Speaker

Dr. Solomon | Professor, Psychologist & Contributor to: The Today Show, O Magazine, The Atlantic, Vogue, and Scientific American

Coming Soon

The Taking Sexy Back book club is now in session and registration has closed. Stay tuned for future Create The Love book clubs on the hiitide app!


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